February 21, 2012

  • I'd like to think... Oh, nevermind...

    I was told that girls can pretty much pick any guy they want and, most likely, they'll end up with them.

    I'd like to point out that that is NOT true. whatevah

    What is this supposed power girls have over guys? Because I don't see it.

    Do you honestly never see a ton of girls hanging on ONE guy? HAHAHA. Are you kidding? YES.

    So, HE has some choices, too, me thinks. And that doesn't mean that I, just being a girl and having sights on him, am going to win him. LOL.

    What?

    Maybe I wish It worked like that. winky

    I was also told that I could pick any guy I wanted. Yes, I was really told that. whatevah Oh, yeah, because magically the guy I choose is going to magically be interested in me, too. It kinda takes, you know, two people who are interested in each other equally and that DOESN'T always happen.

    I thought that was... obvious?

    It's all lies. So, I don't know why I'm being told that. Stop it!

    Although, this comes to mind,

    "I've got to admit that the thought has crossed my mind
    This might end up like it should"

    hehe...

     

Comments (10)

  • I think it works like that a lot. Unless the girl is crazy or stalker-ish. I guess you just have to practice stalking without seeming obvious about it until you get good enough, haha. 

  • @justfinethanku - hahaha....

  • It usually depends on the girls' looks. It sounds crude, but it's true; usually, the better-looking girl gets first pick. She doesn't have to be a supermodel, but she just has to look better in comparison to the other women in her immediate social circle. 

    Part of it, though, is ultimately in personality. There's only so far that looks will go when it comes to getting the girls. I've seen lots of good-looking women end up dateless or single for long stretches because of the negative reputations they've built (not even as "sluts", just being notorious for being heartless), only picking up the occasional FWB. The only way to overcome the personality issue is if the girl really is a rare beauty who can stand out in ANY crowd. She'll be bound to find a guy who'd put up with all the BS she can throw, just so he can have some eye candy. 

    For guys, they usually get their comeuppance later on in life, assuming they're smart and hardworking enough; if they make enough money, then THEY get their pick of the women first. The women will flock to them, pretty themselves up and seduce him, all in an attempt to get a taste of his material riches, or better yet, secure him as a long-term boyfriend or husband. 
    I went to an engineering school, which was, as one would expect, male-dominated. Out there, it's very common to see tons of guys hanging around one girl. But I think it's something that happens with both sexes. Guys will flock around hot girls, girls will flock around the successful guys. 

  • There was a punk rock chick way into me when I was still into the punk scene. But I was so unattracted to the girls who looked punk and preferred more wholesome girly girls even though I was quite the opposite of that. So yeah, I don't buy that chicks cannot get any guy they want from knowledge of my own personal preferences.

  • I can only wonder who it is that you have set your sights on!

    @QuantumStorm - Excellent comment.

  • @Shadowrunner81 - Thanks!

  • @QuantumStorm - people are depressingly shallow.

  • I think it's all hullabaloo too.  Honestly.  I KNOW that I have great qualities.  I'm decently smart, I'm articulate, I am loving, I'm affectionate but not overly so, I'm loyal to a fault, I don't quit friendships or relationships without good reason & even then it's very hard because I am a loyal person, I'm not high-maintenance, I'm not vain yet I do care how I look so I don't come across as sloppy, etc.  I'm NOT ugly by any means.  However, I also don't believe I'm at the top of the list in beauty. 

    So I feel men can be really shallow as far as women goes.  Only ONE guy I've EVER been interested in showed interest in return.  It didn't last long before he found a younger girlfriend (considering I was 18, he was 18/19 I wasn't impressed).  However, I also feel that because I wasn't the kind of person to have sex with the person I was dating that could've been a "negative" for me to the guys.  Which means that the losers were weeded out....hmmm, maybe that means I was attracted to attractive losers?  *lol*  I feel like many (not all) attractive men are losers & jerks. 

    Okay, interesting psychology fact.  People usually marry within their "station" as far as looks goes.  I learned in psychology class that IN GENERAL (not as a rule) beautiful people stick together, ugly people stick together & middle of the road people stick together.  *lol* 

  • @lucylwrites - Well it can be depressing, to be sure. That's why we have uplifting things, like bacon and puppies and breast cancer treatments. Balances out the bad with the good ^_^

  • @QuantumStorm - :D

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