February 8, 2012

  • If you have a problem with me...

    1. Come to ME and talk to ME about it. Lets put on our big girl/big boy panties and act like adults. I have this streak in me that WANTS to be argumentative and does find it humorous and kinda fun, but... really, I'm breaking away from that as much as possible. Drama is stupid, so if you have an issue with me, come talk to me about it and lets work it out... and try to find common ground. Is that too much to ask?

    2. If you just plain don't like me, that's okay. You aren't the first and you certainly won't be the last. happy That's okay. I like to be friends with all sorts of people, so I'm always open to that. If I've offended you, please tell me. I WANT to know.

    That said...

    3. I'm not changing FOR anyone. My opinions are my own and I cherish them. If we can't be "friends" because we disagree, that's okay, but I don't see why we can't? There's something to be said for people who can be friends with people who they disagree with. I mean, I don't think I have ONE friend that agrees with me on EVERYTHING. That's just silly. So, please...

    I'm becoming more comfortable with who I am and what I stand for. If you can't take that, and don't like it, and can't be respectful in disagreeing with me or looking past the difference, that's just too darn bad. Cause I'll try, if you try.

    And if I come across needy, clingy, annoying, I'm sorry. I'm not perfect. If I "talk to you too much", I'm sorry. It's because I like you and think highly of you, really. It's nothing more than that. If you have a problem with that, I'M SORRY, but what can I do? Politely tell me and I'LL BACK OFF, I swear I will.

     And if YOU DON'T have a problem with me, yay, we can be best friends! I love having me some friends. laughing

    Oh, and if you DISRESPECT  any of my friends, you will be BLOCKED (not a simple disagreeing with, I mean name calling or incredibly rude and offensive comments). You're welcome! winky *I had the pleasure of deleting a certain "friend" over that. I was willing to overlook our enormous differences, but not when you attack my friends. No, sir! Not having that!*

Comments (12)

  • WELL LET ME TELL YOU

    I think you rock.

    May

  • @sonnigenmai - Awww, THANK YOU. You rock too!

  • Yikes.  What happened?

  • I am so glad to hear that you're getting more comfortable with yourself as well as your beliefs & opinions!  ROCK ON! 

    By the way, I think highly of you too!   

  • Hi Bestest Friendest!

  • @TrainTrack - Hey there, bestest friend! Glad to see your smiling face. It makes me happy!

  • you're the bees knees, young lady.

    anyone not wanting your friendship loses out.

  • @AgainstTheWind1 - Aww, thank you!  *hugs*

  • @MyTwoCentss -  I definitely am. Just today, I "liked" a pro-life picture on my facebook.I generally would just not do anything, but I liked it and what I like, is what I like and if anyone has a problem with it, well... lol. I'm just taking everything a day at a time and every day, I feel a little stronger. Different subject, but... you know! lol

    And I, of course, think super highly of you! Glad we're friends. *hugs*

  • @Megabyyte - Yeah, I have a hard time sharing on my FB too.  Because I've formed bonds with the people there (for the most part) and I don't want to ruffle feathers or rock the boat.  I'm not about drama with friends at all.  It only stresses me out.  Still, I've taken to doing it once in a while - sharing a video or a status about pro-life.  Like today. If someone "unfriends" me for it, we weren't really friends then, were we?  It's easier here where I don't truly know anyone.  And since I came here & was like this from the beginning, it is nice to know that any friends I DO make here know how I feel & respect me still.   

  • If someone doesn't wanna be friends because of differing opinions, then it's their loss, and basically shows how close minded they are.  No one agrees on everything.  Just doesn't happen.  I think it takes a stronger friend to disagree, but still be friendly about it.

  • Well, you know what, I do have a problem! I don't know what it is yet, but when I do, I'll be back to fight with you!

    Just kidding lol

    I don't have any problems with you or anyone. I think you're cool :)

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